Shenay Greenough

Who was Shenay Greenough?

The 19-year-old woman found dead in Pasco, Washington on Monday, May 10th 2010

Shenay was a great mother, she had all the support in the world for helping with Ayden. she was loving to all.

Who was Shenay Greenough?

What happened to Shenay? Why are you writing this blog.

She was strangled Saturday May 8th, 2010 by Kurtis Robert Chapman. Chapman, age 22, is has been second-degree murder. He has an arrest warrant with bail set at $1 million. Police are searching for him.

UPDATE: Bail set at $1 million for murder suspect - source Breaking News | Tri-City Herald : Mid-Columbia news

Me and my mom appeared on KNDU, they came over and interviewed us. Video is dead but it was a very emotional interview.

I wrote this blog because Shenay was some one very dear to us and I am tired of seeing the comments and the media with just the bare facts of who Shenay was. Shenay was an amazing woman, with a beautiful singing voice. She would come over all the time and sing on my rockband games on my ps3, also before Ayden was born she and I would produce audio clips of her singing, I would download and create a audio track whether it was singing with, or an instrumental and she would sing with it. She was supposed to sing at my wedding back in 2005, the famous Selena song, Shenay and I rehearsed the song for probably over 300 hours in total for her to be ready. Something came up and she couldnt make it. I forgave her on it.

Shenay wanted to be a certified nurse's assistant, I believe she went to RiversEdge back in 2008 and then Tri-Tech trying to continue her education as she was very good with people. She and my girlfriend at the time Marlene were starting to become good friends. Marlene really enjoyed hanging out with her. Marlene is taking the death of Shenay hard as well.

She loved to take pictures and show off her different hair colors.

She leaves behind her family and friends and her infant son Ayden he is over 1 year old I just have to find the pictures.

Lets Journey into the young Life of Shenay in pictures. These picture are from when she was much much younger.

Galley of Aeydan and Shenay

Lets Journey into the young Life of Shenay in pictures. These picture are from when she was much much younger.

Saturday may 15th 2010:

The other day there was the obituaries and I decided to cut them out and post them on here

Sorry I havent updated for a couple days, since after catching Kurtis and having him behind bars, the news hasnt really released much else. So I have been taking the time trying to find somethings things me and Shenay did.

Christine Sullivan, This is Shenay's mom we never really talked, she would come over and talk to us a little, maybe to bring Shenay over and hang out, or to pick her up. but I truly wish I could get a hold of her. Since I have no other communication to talk to her with. I want to tell her I am sorry for her loss as this has affected me in ways I never believed were possible.

Back in 2005, before I was married to Billie, Shenay was asked and accepted she would sing at my wedding, something came up and she never made it. She apologized alot but we forgave her. Being a teen girl, some things may have come up that she wasnt able to make it. The wedding wasnt the same without her. Considering she was like a little sister to me. She loved singing and one of the songs she loved singing was a song by Selena. Me and Shenay used to spend hours playing games, she loved my singing games on my ps3, and she also enjoyed playing rockband/guitar hero type of games and also working on her singing. She had such a beautiful voice, but she was shy to show it off. I would be on my laptop and she would be having the mic and sing songs on the mic. I recorded some of her singing.

My little brother Foster, Shenay's best friend is away somewhere that he found out over the phone that Shenay was murdered, my mom and foster's girlfriend Jessica went to go visit Foster, personally I wish I knew of a way to reverse time and make all this never happen. My brother doesnt deserve to loose a girl so important to him.

Sunday newspaper had a huge obituary about Shenay, she is 19 years old and her obituary was longer than some of the people who were in her 50-60's. This made me smile because this shows that Shenay was leading a pretty fulfilling life. Even though it was forcefully cut short, she still has a nice track record when it comes to things she was achieving in her short life.

This obituary was so big with my iphone it took 6 photos to show the whole thing.

The Funeral

on Sunday May 16th 2010, there was a gathering of Shenay friends and also her mom and dad, they called it a Vigil, I didnt go cause I have never met Shenay's friends. She and I always talked about everything. Thats the thing about Shenay she was a very private person. I know she never really spoke of me cause there wasnt much to say about me. I helped Shenay a little with her myspace profile, she was on facebook but shes never added me lol. I still have the request pending on my facebook account. She was always coming over to the house and getting on one of my other computers in order to surf the internet or check out her accounts. Other than that I would sit down with her and we would talk.

Well today is Monday May 17th 2010, tomorrow is The funeral. Tomorrow is also the day Kurtis Chapman is charged, I still havent seen anything about a double murder listed, considering the baby was alive when he strangeled Shenay. This really sucks, My little brother cannot say goodbye to Shenay to proper way. He will never be able to see Shenay again. How can you live with that not being able to see your best friend before she is buried.

Funeral is at 11 am, on May 18th 2010, interesting part is this is also the day Mount Saint Helens blew its top back in 1980.

Address of Funeral is at

South Hills Church

3700 W. 27th Ave. Kennewick, Washington

Funeral starts at 11 am. Apparently today is a 3 part deal, first the service, then the reception, then the viewing till finally Shenay is laid to rest forever. I will just be attending the service to say goodbye to my friend. Reception I may not go to. Viewing I am not sure either. Would I be able to handle seeing Shenay with no life in her body at all. I am not sure. I still have denial believing she is dead. She has in the past it was long periods of time not showing up. Basically reality hasnt set in my mind yet. I keep thinking she will show up again and let us know how shes been doing and how Ayden is doing. Basically her normal visit, but reading this blog helps me understand she is not coming back. I will write more through out the day.

On another note Kurtis will be getting charged today not yet sure what time, I will try to find out. Today is going to be a long day.

Service was beautiful, Shenay was in a white gown and in her left arm was Kyana. I was happy to see. Kyana was buried with her mother. Shenay was all made up with makeup. She was beautiful. That is also when it hit me Shenay is gone forever. I bursted out crying. Marlene walked me back to the seats, I was broken up so bad. I didnt have the heart to pull out my iphone camera and take a picture of her in her casket. However it appears some people have taken pictures and offered them to me. I have included some photos of the program for the service.

This is the page that was made for Shenay on[/st_callout]I have quite a few pictures to post and I will be getting them posted, it looks like soon My family and Shenay's family will have the justice they deserve with this long awaited trial. I would love to be able to go to the trial, unfortunately I cannot attend any of the hearings or the trial because I have a job. As I add the pictures I will rewrite this summary and make it in more detail. I want to make this blog into something that we all can remember. This is my way of making a tribute to Shenay.

May 19th 2010

checked Shenay's grave to see if they have the headstone yet they havent added it yet. She has alot of flowers and the purple ribbon is in the bunch.

The Trial of Kurtis Chapman

Still waiting for the trial of Kurtis Chapman

The Shenay Greenough Trial will go on

Verdict and sentencing of Kurtis Chapman

November 7 2011

Kurtis Chapman is sentenced to 24 years in prison today, after pleading guilty to killing Shenay Greenough, and her unborn child, Kyana. Its a concurrent sentencing.


You murdered my best friend, you deserve way more than what you were sentenced.


2 responses to “Shenay Greenough”

  1. I hope your doing better my Sweetheart, I know you must miss Ayden, and We most definitely miss you so much, I cant begin to say! My Beautiful Daughter My one and only I simply cant except that you were taken from me. I just don't have words. God knows what's in my heart and I hope you know how much I Love You My Sweet Girl, always and forever. I will see you in Heaven before we know it. I will do my best to provide for your son, when I am also gone. I Love him as my Life just as I do You. My Life will not be the same until I'm with you again. MOM.

  2. I still cannot believe this happened. Among other things, this is one of the main reasons my wife Erika and I decided to move away. Shenay and Sean were our room-mates about 10 months before this happened. Her son and our son spent much of their infant lives together... Eating in their high-chairs in from of children's cartoons... Wrecking the day room in just minutes,,,, and even playing in the bubble bath together. Erika looked forward to having a best friend with a child of equal age for them to grow up together as best friends. Yet suddenly, this dream-come-true scenario was turned upside down into an unimaginable nightmare. Our son Jaydin has not even seen his dear friend Ayden since 2011. I am terrible sorry for your loss Christina, I have no idea how to relate such an unexpected loss of such a great person. R.I.P. Shenay, you are missed greatly everyday.

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Updated Blog September 19, 2014 Shenay Greenough - Link is her memorial Page

Post comments for the blog on here, Shenay's memorial will always be located at

Shenay we will always love you and we will miss you.

9 responses to “Updated Blog September 19, 2014 Shenay Greenough - Link is her memorial Page”

  1. This is nice Forrest - It is so hard to believe...Shenay will be greatly missed in our family.

  2. My son went to elementary with her. They hooked back up in youth group, they dated for a short while but remained friends. She has been over to our house many times. She is going to be missed.

  3. This broke my heart, she was a beautiful girl has an amazing little boy. I hope justice is served to Shenay and her little girl.

  4. Thank you for creating this page. Most people who visit it will have no idea who I am. I babysat Shenay from the time she was a toddler until she was around 8 years old. I did not know her as she got older but can only imagine what an amazing young lady she must have become. She was an energetic, outgoing, charismatic, adorable little girl. She will always have a special place in my heart. I pray for the healing of her young son, family, and friends. I know it doesn't begin to help the pain right now but her and her daughter are in better place.

  5. My son, Foster was Shenay's best friend and he suggested we get something for our yard - in memory of Shenay. Jessica and I bought a beautiful angel statue last night and it will be in my flower garden. All the postings about Shenay are nice. Her baby girl and her are indeed "in a better place."

  6. The memorial page was incredibly touching. I don't know Shenay myself, but she sounds like a wonderful person and I'm sure she and her baby are in a much much happier place now.

    I really really hope the evil creep gets everything he deserves; what he did was despicable. I'm a little late but my thoughts and best wishes will be with Shenay and her darling baby, and may all her loved ones find solace in the great loss that they have endured.

    Bless you all!

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